It is my mother’s birthday today. She starts on her 72nd year. She has the kind of spryness that puts me to shame. She lives alone. My father died when I was nine, and she brought me up singlehandedly. I am an only child. My son is an only child. I never felt the need for a sibling, she ensured I was alone but never lonely. Being a single woman raising a child, especially a daughter in the big bad metropolis is tough. I realise that today, that I have grown up, and known the wolves my mother kept me safe from.
She singlehandedly bought a flat in Mumbai in an era when loans where not being dispensed out like so much confetti at a parade. Worked at an office, where her daily commute was a four hour one, in packed BEST buses. Ensured I was fed, clothed and educated.
She also cooks the most amazing food. Food, that I am sure, is the tastiest to me because she cooks it. Unfortunately, I havent inherited her cooking skills, or her fortitude, or her patience. All I’ve inherited from her is the widow’s peak on my forehead. And her beliefs. Take each day as it comes. God has his plans. This too will pass. Dont speak ill of anyone. Dont harm anyone.
Happy Birthday Mummy, I’m blessed to be your daughter.
About Kiran Manral
Kiran Manral is a writer and major social media influencer. After quitting her full-time journalist’s job when her son was born, Kiran became a mommy blogger on the internet, with a remarkably original voice. She was a journalist at The Asian Age, The Times of India, features editor Cosmopolitan, India Cultural Lead and Trend spotter at Gartner Iconoculture US, Senior Consultant at Vector Insights, Ideas Editor, SheThePeople.TV. Kiran is currently a celebrated author and an independent research and media consultant.
She was shortlisted for the Femina Women Awards for Literary Contribution in 2017. The Indian Council of UN Relations (ICUNR) supported by the Ministry of Women and Children, Govt of India, awarded her the International Women’s Day Award 2018 for excellence in the field of writing. In 2021 she was awarded the Womennovator 1000 Women of Asia award. In 2022, she was named amongst the 75 Iconic Indian women in STEAM by Red Dot Foundation and Beyond Black, in collaboration with the Office of the Principal Scientific Advisor, Government of India, and British High Commission, New Delhi.
Her novella, Saving Maya, was long-listed for the 2018 Saboteur Award, supported by the Arts Council of England in the UK. Her novels 'The Face At the Window’ and ‘Missing, Presumed Dead were both long-listed for Jio MAMI Word to Screen, and ‘The Face at the Window’ was showcased at the South Asian Film Festival 2019. The Kitty Party Murder was shortlisted for the Popular Choice award at the 2021 JK Papers TOI AutHER awards.
Her other books include The Reluctant Detective, Once Upon A Crush, All Aboard, Karmic Kids-The Story of Parenting Nobody Told You, A Boy’s Guide to Growing Up, True Love Stories, 13 Steps to Bloody Good Parenting, Raising Kids with Hope and Wonder in Times of a Pandemic and Climate Change, More Things in Heaven and Earth and Rising: 30 Women Who Changed India. She also has published short stories in various magazines, in acclaimed anthologies like Have A Safe Journey, Boo, The Best Asian Speculative Fiction 2018, Grandpa’s Tales, Magical Women and City of Screams. Kiran lives in Mumbai with her family.
Social media handles
Twitter: https://twitter.com/KiranManral
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kiranmanral/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KiranManralAuthorPage
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kiranmanral/
As a single parent, I can identify. I want to touch her feet and get her blessings. Happy Birthday Kiran’s Mummy
She would probably jump back in shock…
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Lovely words for an awesome inspiring woman!
Happy Birthday to your mom.
Thank you.
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hey, happy b’day to your mom. May God grant her good health. love.
Thank you.
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What an inspiration !! Please wish her a happy birthday & a fantastic year ahead…on my behalf
I will. Thank you.
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Here’s wishing a very happy birthday to your mom, Kiran!
Thank you.
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Wishing your mom a very happy birthday. She’s truly inspirational.
Thank you.
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happy birthday to mom and very nice lessons for life there kiran..thanks
Thank you.
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btw shouldn it be “i tweeted” instead of “i twitted” 😉
Depends on whether one is a tweet or a twit? 😉
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A very Happy Birthday to ur mom..
This is a beautiful post. And I bow to your mom for the way she has brought you up.
🙂 Thank you.
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Happy Birthday to you mom , and wonderful advices , will think back to them whenever i am lost in life..
Here’s wishing her a great day and many wonderful years to come..
Thank you…
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Very Happy Birthday to your mom…very inpsiring ….. fell in love with what you wrote here…pass my hug….I hope thats ok 🙂
Of course it is…thank you.
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beautiful. happy birthday, and long live your mom.
Thank you anna, how you doing?
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Wish her a very Happy Birthday on my behalf…Commenting for the first time…A really heart-warming post.
I will. Thank you.
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wow u lucky she is everything my mother can never be..happy b’day:)
Oho. Dont say that. Every mother is unique.
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happy bday to ur mom…:)
Thank you…
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Happy b’day to your mum. She sounds like one amazing woman 🙂
She is, she truly is.
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A very Happy Birthday to your mom !
Thank you CA.
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Happy birthday to your mom. May god grant her good health.
I can relate to your post cos I also lost my dad when I was 12.
Thank you.
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Happy Birthday. Very emotional.
Thank you.
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Mums are amazing, arent they?
My warm and best wishes to your mum. Wishes, she has a beautiful and long healthy life ahead!!
Hugs, dear, my wishes that your mom looks over you and watches out for you…
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Very inspiring… I think being able to buy a flat in Mumbai at any time is very very awe inspiring.
Happy Birthday to your mom,and wish her the best of health for many years to come.
Thank you Aathira…
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I understand how many challenges she would have faced to raise you alone…She is one brave woman…My very best wishes to her…Hope she leads a lovely life!
Thanks Harini.
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All good wishes to a lady whom I truly admire. God bless you, Ma’am.
Thanks Dips. Coming from a friend I truly admire, this means a lot.
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Aww, K! Happy birthday to Nana. You’ve sure as hell done her proud.
Not that she thinks so, Jammies. According to her, and which she never hesitates repeating, I’ve wasted my life playing good wife.
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Happy Birthday to your Mummy Kiran. She sure is an amazing lady, how easy would it have been to wallow in self pity and suffocate your child with obligations and expectations. Truly an amazing woman!!
True. She’s lovely.
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Wishing your mom a Very Happy Birthday!
Thank you.
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A very happy birthday to your mom!
Thank you
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Happy Birthday Kiran’s mom…hey we have a couple of things in common both brought up by single mom’s and only children at it..!!! Lots of love to ur mom!
Behennaaaaaa!
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Oh and i have a widow’s peak too (not inherited from the mother though)
Matching matching….
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Lol @ the behennnaaaa…in true hindi movie bechade hua siblings style …i am singing a song – can u hear it?
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You have a truly inspirational woman for a mother!! God bless her and may she lead a healthy, lovely life 🙂
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hi Kiran’s mom :
Wish you a wonderful birthday. You are a truly inspirational lady and keep Kiran givng good advise as she definitely needs it and has been putting it to much use, all these years 😉
Love
TAAmy
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